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Dog Bed Reviews in Australia for Anxious Dogs: When “Calming” Beds Fail

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Key Takeaways

  • “Calming” dog beds are comfort tools, not treatments. Raised bolsters, plush fabrics and “nesting” shapes may help some dogs feel safer, but they rarely resolve moderate to severe anxiety on their own.
  • If a calming bed “fails”, the problem is often the diagnosis, the environment, or the bed’s design. Separation anxiety, noise phobia, pain, itch, digestive upset and heat stress can all look like “restless sleep”.
  • Australian conditions matter. Thick shag beds that feel cosy in winter can contribute to overheating in summer, especially for brachycephalic (flat-faced) breeds and double-coated dogs.
  • The most reliable bed features for anxious dogs are practical: stable support, predictable edges, easy hygiene, and temperature control. “Fluffy” is not automatically calming.
  • Safety and durability are part of welfare. Loose stuffing, zips, and shedding pile fabrics can be swallowed by chewers; slippery bases and tall bolsters can be unsafe for seniors.
  • Choose a bed based on the anxiety pattern. A dog that startles at night needs different support from a dog that paces when left alone.
  • For persistent anxiety, a bed should sit inside a wider plan. Evidence-based behaviour strategies (desensitisation, counterconditioning, predictable routines), environmental management and veterinary guidance are more important than any single product.

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Introduction

Dog bed marketing in Australia has shifted noticeably in the last few years. Many beds are now promoted as calming, anti-anxiety, or therapeutic, often using language that suggests they can meaningfully change a dog’s emotional state. Some of these beds do provide comfort—particularly for dogs that like to curl up, lean against a border, or “nest” with their paws. However, many Australian dog owners discover a frustrating reality: the bed arrives, looks soft and inviting, and the dog still paces, pants, barks, scratches, refuses to settle, or sleeps elsewhere.

This article addresses the uncomfortable but common outcome—when “calming” beds fail—and explains why the failure is not always the dog’s fault, and not always the bed’s fault. In many households the issue is mismatch: the dog’s anxiety type does not align with what the bed can realistically help with, or the bed’s materials, structure or temperature profile are unsuitable for the home and climate.

The goal here is to provide an Australia-specific, welfare-focused approach to reviewing calming-style dog beds. Rather than ranking brands, this guide reviews design categories and the claims commonly attached to them, then offers a practical diagnostic path: what to check first, what to change, and when to involve a veterinarian.

Throughout, reputable behaviour and veterinary references are used to ground the advice. For example, common signs of anxiety and distress in dogs include panting, pacing, trembling, hiding, drooling, vocalising, and inappropriate elimination, among others, and can also present as irritability or aggression in some cases. These signs are important, because a bed can improve comfort but cannot diagnose why a dog is distressed.

What “Calming” Dog Beds Claim to Do (and What They Can Realistically Do)

Most calming beds are built around three ideas:

  1. Nesting and “den-like” security: donut or bolster edges create a partial enclosure and allow a dog to curl and press their body against a boundary.
  2. Soft tactile comfort: plush fabrics and deep fill encourage sinking in, which may reduce restlessness in some dogs.
  3. Pressure and warmth: some beds are marketed as providing a soothing “hug” effect, loosely comparable to deep touch pressure.

Australian pet insurance and pet-care publishers often describe calming beds as working through raised edges and soft materials that help dogs feel secure, particularly for mild anxiety or for dogs that like to burrow. That framing is broadly reasonable—comfort can support settling.

However, it is essential to keep expectations proportionate:

  • A bed may help a dog choose a resting place.
  • A bed may reduce minor sleep disturbance caused by cold flooring, drafts, or lack of cushioning.
  • A bed may support recovery and rest after exercise or in older age.

A bed is unlikely to resolve:

  • true separation anxiety (panic when alone)
  • significant noise phobia (thunderstorms, fireworks)
  • anxiety driven by pain, itch, nausea, or hormonal changes
  • anxiety driven by learned patterns (e.g., the dog has practised pacing and barking for months)

If a bed is marketed as a stand-alone fix for severe anxiety, it is sensible to treat the claim with caution.

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Why “Calming” Beds Fail: The 9 Most Common Reasons

When owners say a calming bed “did nothing,” the details usually point to one (or several) of the following issues.

1) The dog is not anxious—just uncomfortable, hot, or in pain

Dogs can appear “anxious” when they are actually experiencing discomfort. Restlessness, panting, frequent repositioning, avoidance of lying down, or moving to cool tiles can be linked to temperature or pain.

  • Heat is a common Australian factor. Thick faux-fur, high-pile fabrics and deep fill trap warmth. Dogs that overheat will not settle.
  • Arthritis, spinal pain, or hip dysplasia can make some bed shapes difficult to use (especially those that require a step over a tall bolster).
  • Skin irritation, fleas, or allergies can cause the dog to get up repeatedly to scratch or lick.

Anxiety signs like panting and pacing are common, but they are not specific to anxiety alone. If a bed fails, it is wise to rule out pain and heat stress before assuming “the calming part didn’t work.”

2) The anxiety type doesn’t match the bed’s function

A bed primarily influences resting comfort and perceived safety while lying down. It does not change the dog’s response to being left alone or to loud noises.

  • Separation anxiety involves distress when separated from owners, often shown by vocalisation, destruction, house soiling, pacing, and escape attempts. A bed may become a “station” but will not stop panic.
  • Noise phobia may drive a dog to hide in bathrooms, under beds, or behind toilets—locations chosen for sound dampening and enclosure. A plush donut bed in the lounge room may not compete with that.

3) The bed is placed in the wrong location

Anxious dogs often have strong preferences for sightlines and proximity.

Common placement mistakes in Australian homes include:

  • putting the bed in a high-traffic corridor where footsteps and sudden movement keep the dog on alert
  • placing it beside a glass sliding door facing a street (visual triggers for watchdog breeds)
  • putting it near a heater, fireplace, or uninsulated window that causes temperature swings
  • placing it in a laundry where appliances add vibration and unpredictable noise

A practical rule is to place the bed where the dog already chooses to rest, then gradually nudge the location if needed.

4) The bed’s texture is wrong for the dog

Some dogs dislike high-pile faux fur. It can feel static-y, trap odours, collect sand, and irritate sensitive skin. Other dogs dislike slippery “cooling” fabrics. A bed that feels strange underfoot may be avoided.

A good review of any calming-style bed should consider:

  • Is the pile shedding?
  • Does it feel clammy in humidity?
  • Does it hold a “new plastic” smell?
  • Does the dog paw at it as if trying to “fix” it?

If a dog repeatedly circles, paws, then leaves, the bed may be failing as a surface, not as a calming concept.

5) The bed is too soft, unstable, or unsupportive

Deep-fill beds can collapse under heavier dogs, leaving them in contact with the floor. This can increase restlessness and make older dogs sore.

For anxious dogs, instability is also a behavioural issue: if a bed slides, squashes, or tilts as the dog steps in, the dog may not trust it. This is particularly common on polished floorboards and tiles.

6) The dog is a chewer or “destuffer”

Anxious dogs are overrepresented among chewers and destructors. A bed that cannot handle chewing becomes unsafe.

Common failure patterns:

  • seams split within days
  • the dog swallows stuffing or fabric
  • hidden zips become a chew target

In these homes, “calming” is secondary to safe durability.

7) Hygiene problems create ongoing discomfort

If a bed cover is not easily washable, odour and allergens build up. That is not only unpleasant; it can worsen itch and reduce sleep quality.

Australian climates add extra challenges:

  • coastal humidity slows drying and increases mildew risk
  • red dust and grass seeds embed in pile fabrics
  • flea management requires consistent laundering in some households

8) The bed encourages overheating and restless sleep

Some calming beds are effectively insulated nests. In many regions, that is a winter benefit—but Australian summers are long, and indoor temperatures can remain high overnight.

A bed review should explicitly assess:

  • breathability of the top fabric
  • whether the fill compresses into a heat-trapping “pocket”
  • whether the dog chooses cool surfaces instead

9) The household routine and reinforcement are working against settling

Dogs learn patterns quickly. If a dog receives attention every time they pace or whine at bedtime, the behaviour may persist. A bed cannot compete with reinforcement history.

This is not about blame. It is about recognising that behaviour change requires structure:

  • consistent bedtime routine
  • predictable access to toileting
  • adequate exercise and enrichment earlier in the day
  • calm, neutral responses to attention-seeking behaviours

A Practical Review Framework: How to Assess Any “Calming” Bed in Australia

Dog bed “reviews” online often focus on softness, appearance, and shipping. For anxious dogs, a more useful review framework is functional.

Criteria 1: Thermal performance (Australian reality check)

Assess the bed as you would assess clothing:

  • Does it trap heat?
  • Does it breathe?
  • Is it suitable for a dog that runs warm?

Red flags for summer: thick shag, deep unventilated fill, waterproof layers without breathable top fabric.

Criteria 2: Stability and slip resistance

A non-slip base matters in Australian homes with tile, laminate, and polished boards.

  • The bed should not slide when the dog steps in.
  • The side bolsters should not collapse so far that the dog “falls out.”

Criteria 3: Support and pressure distribution

Support is welfare.

  • Large dogs often need structured foam rather than loose polyester fill.
  • Older dogs often need a low-entry design with stable sides.

Criteria 4: Hygiene and washability

Look for:

  • removable, machine-washable cover
  • fast-drying materials
  • minimal crevices where sand and hair accumulate

Criteria 5: Safety for chewers and anxious destructors

Consider:

  • concealed zips
  • reinforced seams
  • materials that do not shred into strings

If a dog is likely to ingest materials, a “calming bed” can become a hazard rather than a help.

Criteria 6: The dog’s preferred sleep style

A bed should suit how the dog naturally sleeps.

  • Curlers: often like donut/bolster shapes.
  • Stretchers: often prefer mats, loungers, or flat orthopaedic beds.
  • Leaners: may like a bolster on one side rather than a full ring.
  • Burrowers: may prefer a cave/hooded style if heat is managed.

Dog Bed Design Categories: Australian-Style “Reviews” (Strengths, Weaknesses, Best Use)

This section reviews the main bed types Australian shoppers commonly encounter when searching for calming beds.

Donut / Shag “Calming” Beds

Typical features: circular shape, raised rim, plush faux-fur “shag”, deep fill.

Why they help (when they help):

  • encourage curling and nesting
  • raised rim supports head/neck resting
  • some dogs settle faster when they can press against an edge

Australian pet-care writers frequently describe raised edges and soft textures as creating a sense of security.

Why they fail:

  • overheating risk in warm weather and warm homes
  • poor support for heavy dogs if fill compresses
  • hygiene challenges if the cover is not removable or dries slowly
  • can be quickly destroyed by chewers

Best suited to: small to medium curlers, mild anxiety, winter conditions, air-conditioned homes.

Less suited to: large breeds, brachycephalic breeds in summer, dogs with skin allergies, persistent chewers.

Bolster Beds (Rectangular with Raised Sides)

Typical features: rectangular mattress with raised sides on two to four edges.

Strengths:

  • more usable space than a donut; dogs can stretch and still rest their head on a bolster
  • bolsters can create a boundary without full enclosure
  • easier to place in corners or against walls

Weaknesses:

  • if bolsters are too high, seniors may struggle to step in
  • if bolsters are too soft, they collapse and provide no “security”

Best suited to: dogs that like boundaries but also sprawl; multi-dog homes where beds get shared.

Orthopaedic Foam Beds (Flat or Light Bolster)

Typical features: structured foam (often memory foam), supportive base, washable cover.

Why they can help anxious dogs:

  • predictable, stable feel underfoot
  • less “sink” and wobble compared with loose-fill beds
  • better comfort for dogs with pain, which can reduce night waking

Why they fail:

  • if marketed as “calming” purely due to foam, expectations can be unrealistic
  • if the cover is noisy or slippery, some dogs avoid it

Best suited to: large dogs, seniors, dogs with suspected joint pain, dogs that dislike plush textures.

Raised / Trampoline Beds

Typical features: elevated frame with taut fabric surface.

Strengths in Australia:

  • airflow underneath helps cooling in summer
  • easy to clean; hair does not embed deeply
  • good for outdoor shaded verandas (with supervision)

Weaknesses for anxious dogs:

  • some dogs dislike the “hammock” feel
  • can be noisy on hard floors
  • not ideal for dogs that seek enclosure

Best suited to: heat-prone dogs, thick-coated breeds, dogs that choose cool surfaces.

Cave / Hooded Beds (Burrow Beds)

Typical features: covered top or hood, enclosed sleeping space.

Strengths:

  • can reduce visual stimuli
  • can help dogs that naturally hide when stressed

Weaknesses:

  • significant overheating risk if materials are heavy
  • not suitable for dogs that panic in confined spaces

Best suited to: small dogs that burrow, winter use, quiet rooms.

Calming Mats and “Station” Mats

Typical features: thin padded mats, sometimes with non-slip bases.

Strengths:

  • portable and easy to wash
  • can be used for training a settle behaviour (“place”)
  • good for dogs that sprawl

Weaknesses:

  • limited cushioning for older dogs
  • less “nesting” effect

Best suited to: training plans, travel, crates (where appropriate), warm climates.

Matching Bed Choice to the Anxiety Pattern

Anxious dogs are not all anxious in the same way. A useful step is to identify the dominant pattern.

Pattern A: Night-time restlessness (pacing, frequent repositioning)

Common drivers include heat, pain, poor support, external noise, or late-evening overstimulation.

Bed features to prioritise:

  • breathable surface, not overly insulated
  • stable support (often foam)
  • non-slip base

Pattern B: Startles easily, cannot “switch off” in busy areas

Drivers include environmental triggers and hypervigilance.

Bed features to prioritise:

  • partial enclosure (bolster) or a bed placed with a wall behind it
  • darker, less reflective fabrics
  • location control (quiet zone matters more than bed softness)

Pattern C: Hides during storms or fireworks

Drivers include noise sensitivity and fear.

Bed features to prioritise:

  • a portable bed that can be moved to the dog’s preferred safe area
  • easy-clean, because stress can include drooling or toileting
  • avoid overly fluffy beds that overheat under stress panting

Pattern D: Distressed when left alone (separation anxiety)

Drivers include panic and attachment distress.

Bed features to prioritise:

  • durability and safety (chew-resistant designs)
  • a predictable station for training settle behaviour

Important note: if separation anxiety is suspected, the priority is a behaviour plan and veterinary guidance. A bed may help with routine, but it is not a stand-alone solution.

What to Do When the “Calming Bed” Didn’t Work: A Step-by-Step Troubleshooting Plan

Step 1: Check for medical contributors

If anxiety-like signs are new, escalating, or paired with physical changes, arrange a veterinary check.

Consider discussing:

  • pain (orthopaedic, dental)
  • ear infections (common cause of head shaking and restlessness)
  • itch/allergies and parasite control
  • gastrointestinal issues

Step 2: Reassess the temperature equation

In Australia, temperature is an everyday variable, not a niche issue.

Practical actions:

  • offer two sleep options: a supportive bed and a cooler mat/raised bed
  • avoid placing thick beds in sun patches
  • consider a fan for airflow (safely managed)

Step 3: Move the bed to where the dog already settles

For one week, place the bed exactly where the dog chooses to rest. If the dog starts using it, you can later shift it gradually.

Step 4: Make the bed smell familiar (without creating a hygiene issue)

A lightly worn, clean item with the household scent can help acceptance. Avoid heavily soiled items, which may worsen allergies or odour problems.

Step 5: Train a calm “settle” on the bed

Calmness is a skill.

A simple approach:

  • reward the dog for stepping onto the bed
  • reward again for sitting or lying down
  • keep sessions short and calm
  • avoid exciting play on the bed

Step 6: If destruction is the issue, change the bed category

If the dog chews through plush beds, shift toward a tougher, simpler design. A destroyed bed cannot be calming.

Comfort Products That Can Complement a Bed (Without Overpromising)

A bed is one piece of an environment. Depending on the dog’s needs, the following may be relevant:

  • predictable routine (feeding, walks, rest)
  • environmental management (block visual triggers, create a quiet resting zone)
  • enrichment (scent games, puzzle feeding)
  • behaviour modification for noise triggers (gradual desensitisation and counterconditioning)

Veterinary sources describe anxiety signs and emphasise that fear and distress can be expressed in many ways, from panting and pacing to hiding and irritability. That breadth of signs is a reminder that management plans should be broader than bedding.

Australia-Specific Considerations Many Reviews Miss

Climate zones and seasonal swaps

Australia ranges from cool temperate to tropical, and indoor climates vary widely.

A practical approach is to use seasonal bedding:

  • summer: breathable mat or raised bed; light bolster; washable covers
  • winter: plush bed or additional blanket if the dog seeks warmth

Parasites, allergens, and wash frequency

Fleas, grass seeds, and pollens can turn a bed into an irritant.

A good rule is:

  • wash covers regularly (weekly to fortnightly in high-shedding or allergy homes)
  • vacuum the bed area often
  • keep a spare cover where possible

Tile floors and slipping risk

Many Australian homes have hard floors. For anxious dogs, slipping can increase startle responses and reduce confidence.

Prioritise:

  • non-slip bases
  • rugs or runners near bed entry points

Local welfare expectations (bedding and shelter)

Australian animal welfare codes emphasise that dogs should have appropriate bedding and a suitable resting area, including raised sleeping areas and adequate bedding in kennel contexts. While a home is not a boarding kennel, the principle remains relevant: dry, clean, comfortable rest is a basic welfare requirement, not a luxury.

Comparison Table: Bed Types for Anxious Dogs (Pros, Cons, Best Fit)

Bed type Main benefit Common failure point Best for
Donut / shag Nesting, head support Overheating, poor support Small/med curlers, winter
Bolster (rectangular) Boundary + space to stretch High entry, collapsing sides Leaners, mixed sleepers
Orthopaedic foam Stable support, pain comfort Cover texture/noise Large dogs, seniors
Raised / trampoline Cooling airflow Less “secure” feel Heat-prone dogs, summer
Cave / hooded Visual shelter Heat build-up, confinement Burrowers, quiet rooms
Training mat Portable “place” station Low cushioning Routine building, travel

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The following product categories are commonly useful when calming beds do not deliver the expected change, or when comfort needs to be balanced with heat, hygiene and durability. These suggestions are provided as practical complements to a responsible anxiety plan.

  • Orthopaedic dog beds (supportive foam designs): useful where discomfort or poor support is contributing to restless sleep.
  • Cooling mats: helpful in Australian summer conditions or for dogs that pant and move off plush beds.
  • Raised dog beds: a practical option for airflow, especially in warm regions or for thick-coated breeds.
  • Washable dog bed covers (spare covers): supports hygiene when allergies, fleas, beach sand, or odour are ongoing issues.
  • Snuffle mats and puzzle feeders: supports calm mental engagement, especially for dogs that struggle to settle without enrichment.
  • Calm indoor dog toys (chew-safe categories): can provide an appropriate outlet for mouthy, restless dogs, reducing bed-destruction risk.

When to Seek Professional Help (and Why It Matters)

A bed is a reasonable first purchase when a dog needs a better rest space. However, anxiety can be a welfare concern. Seek veterinary guidance promptly if:

  • anxiety signs are intense (panic, repeated escape attempts, self-injury)
  • the dog shows aggression linked to fear
  • there is sudden onset anxiety in an adult dog (medical causes must be ruled out)
  • the dog’s quality of life is clearly affected (sleep disruption, appetite changes)

Reputable veterinary sources describe anxious dogs as potentially panting, pacing, trembling, drooling, withdrawing or hiding, and in some cases becoming irritable or aggressive. These are not minor issues when persistent.

FAQ: Dog Bed Reviews in Australia for Anxious Dogs

What is the biggest reason calming beds fail?

The most common reason is mismatch: the dog’s underlying issue is not something a bed can address (for example, separation anxiety or noise phobia), or the bed’s heat retention and support do not suit the dog and the Australian environment.

Are calming beds recommended by vets?

Some veterinary and pet-care sources describe calming beds as potentially helpful for comfort, using raised edges and soft materials to create a sense of security. They are generally considered supportive tools rather than medical treatments.

Can a calming bed treat separation anxiety?

A bed can support routine and provide a station for training, but separation anxiety typically involves panic when alone and needs a structured behaviour plan, and sometimes veterinary support. Signs of anxiety/distress can include pacing, vocalisation and inappropriate elimination, among others.

My dog avoids the calming bed. Does that mean it is anxious?

Not necessarily. Avoidance may reflect dislike of the texture, the smell, instability, heat, or placement. Offer the bed in the dog’s preferred resting location and confirm the surface is comfortable and non-slip.

Are shag donut beds too hot for Australian summers?

They can be. High-pile faux fur and deep fill often trap warmth. If your dog pants, sprawls, or moves to tiles, offer a cooler alternative such as a cooling mat or a raised bed, and use plush beds seasonally.

Which bed type is best for an older anxious dog?

Often a supportive orthopaedic foam bed with a low entry is the most practical choice, especially if pain contributes to restlessness. A light bolster can help if the dog likes boundaries, but very high bolsters may be difficult for seniors.

What if my dog chews and destroys every bed?

Prioritise safety and durability over softness. Choose tougher bed categories, reduce access when unsupervised if ingestion risk is high, and address the underlying driver (boredom, anxiety, under-exercising, or separation distress).

How do I clean a dog bed properly in a humid coastal area?

Choose beds with removable covers. Wash regularly, dry thoroughly (sunlight helps but avoid overheating the foam insert), and vacuum frequently to remove sand and hair. In humid conditions, fast-drying covers are preferable.

Do I need more than one bed?

Many Australian households benefit from two options:

  • a supportive primary bed (often foam)
  • a cooler secondary option (cooling mat or raised bed)

This gives the dog choice and improves settling.

Should an anxious dog’s bed be in the bedroom or living room?

It depends on the dog’s comfort and the household routine. Social dogs often settle better near people, while easily startled dogs may benefit from a quieter location with fewer disturbances. Trial placement for a week before deciding.

What are common signs that my dog’s problem is more than a bed issue?

If you see persistent panting, pacing, trembling, hiding, drooling, or house soiling, or if behaviour escalates or becomes destructive, it may indicate significant distress. Seek veterinary guidance.

Can I use a calming bed for crate rest after surgery?

A supportive, stable mat or thin orthopaedic insert can be helpful, but it must fit safely (no bunching, no high bolsters that reduce space). Always follow your veterinarian’s crate rest instructions and monitor for overheating.

Are there welfare standards about bedding in Australia?

Animal welfare guidance for boarding environments includes expectations around providing a raised sleeping area and sufficient bedding appropriate to the dog. While home standards differ, the welfare principle—dry, clean, comfortable rest—remains relevant.

What is a sensible way to judge a calming bed after purchase?

Assess it over 1–2 weeks with controlled changes:

  • confirm the bed is not too hot
  • place it where the dog already rests
  • reward calm settling on the bed
  • track whether night waking, pacing or avoidance decreases

If nothing changes, move to a different bed type (support or cooling), and investigate health or behavioural contributors.

Conclusion

In Australia, the most useful way to approach dog bed reviews for anxious dogs is to be honest about what a bed can and cannot do. A calming bed can be a comfort aid—particularly for dogs that like to curl and lean into a boundary—but it is rarely a stand-alone solution for true anxiety disorders. When calming beds fail, the next step is not to assume the dog is “difficult” or that the owner chose the “wrong brand.” The next step is to reassess the dog’s needs: temperature, pain, texture preferences, safety for chewers, placement, and the broader behaviour plan.

A bed should ultimately do one job exceptionally well: provide safe, stable, clean, climate-appropriate rest. When that foundation is right, any calming benefit becomes more likely, and the dog’s wellbeing improves—regardless of marketing labels.

Disclaimer:

The information provided in this article is for general informational and educational purposes only and is not intended to substitute professional veterinary, behavioural, nutritional, or legal advice. While every effort is made to ensure accuracy, PetCareShed does not guarantee the completeness or reliability of the content. Always consult with a qualified veterinarian, certified dog trainer, or local authority before making decisions that could affect your pet’s health, behaviour, or safety. Product recommendations are based on general suitability and should be evaluated according to your pet’s individual needs.

PetCareShed does not accept liability for any injury, loss, or damage incurred by use of or reliance on the information provided in this guide.

About the author

Written by Ethen Intisar, the co-founder of PetCareShed, an Australian pet supplies store known for its thoughtful, research-backed products and content.

Ethen shares practical, research-backed insights to help pet owners make informed care decisions—supported by expert input from vets and trainers.

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